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LOVE AT ANY AGE
There are a lot of lonely people out there because they think they are too old for love. First of all we are never old. We are coming into a new generation of youth that exists amongst us all. If we keep an open mind with the trends then we should not suffer so much. We suffer because we are not accepting the “new way”. It’s called going with the flow or engaging with the modern world. It’s about surrendering and collaborating as one. Why is it that some parents can’t accept that their grown children aren’t getting married such as they did? Or why they choose to live together or why they want to date different people. Who wrote the book on marriage? Is there such a thing? The marriage is in the heart of each and every one of us; the love we have for ourselves, this sacred relationship is marriage and our body is the temple where the God in all of us live. Staying open to the heart of everyone is a step to finding love again. Or finding deeper more connected authentic love with your already existing partner. We need to break the stigma that binds us, that says we are old, not desirable, not enough dollars, in menopause, to gray or just to fat. Love is but a wonderful spark of the soul that is all around you, minute by minute. Can you catch that train, can you ride that wave, can you interpret the moment, and can you make the change?
Finding love at a younger age may seem easier than when older but a lot of that “romance practice” is a journey to get us to the real love. Go from romantic suffering to real authentic love. Real love is a challenge to sustain at any age because some of us learned to operate from fear and insecurities, control, being controlled, manipulation, being manipulated, resistance and so on. So what do we do? First we begin by adjusting to the new way of the modern world and stop fighting with you and living in resistance. Shed a little resistance off each day, know what it is that you want and need to sustain the relationship of your desire. What actually do you need and want beside the affection and the sex; look beyond this point. This is how you’ll tell the difference between romantic love vs. authentic love. Keep an open aware mind and know how to step into adjustments. Romance is wonderful even if it doesn’t lead to a long term thing; but be honest with yourself. Romance is always a step and a part of the journey. Be patient with every relationship; have fun, learn, transform and respect each other. Save yourself any grief by being a good communicator and expressing your thoughts and feelings.
Tips to authentic love: know that you deserve it, allow yourself the permission to explore and experience what you deserve, keep a good appearance, eat healthy, keep in shape, work out on a spiritual program, donate time and give back and mostly give back to yourself by showing you that you love yourself, that you matter. When you carry this love energy around with you people will notice the essence, like smelling a new perfume; they will feel your richness emanating around you and they too will want to be there, be in there and around you.
The tiger is gone from my husband and he is not interested in my body to make romantic intimate love and will not touch me. His testosterone levels are normal. He can get ready ok to perform and make intimate love and he says he is not cheating. He says he is just tired for love making but, finds energy to do all his hobbies.
What is wrong with me? I am not ugly, I get hit on all the time by men of all ages, even 20 year olds, I am 35. I am very clean about my body. I am not inhibited sexually and have told him that I would try anything he wants.
I think I will try to recommend this post to my friends and family, cuz it’s really helpful.
LOVE BUZZ
Anita DeFrancesco, M.A.
Relationship Coach
July 10, 2009
BANKRUPT OF LOVE
So our state is bankrupt and; no more money to draw from. What’s left if the money resources have run dry and happiness is buried; perhaps love can make you happy. Do you know how to practice this contemplation of an act? Do you know how to practice passing this buck around? Both love and money are valuable and delicate subjects to confront. Which comes easier? Is it the love of money or the love of yourself and how do you separate this? There is that thin line between love and hate, good and evil. Where will you lean in these challenging times? The heart is a good place to begin to find the happiness of the real wealth that has been buried for so long. It is a new evolution that is about to surface, because money is no longer the thing to love because it is all going away. Sounds like we have come into neverland, a place that never gets old, like love it never gets old it just grows deeper. Can we change our perspectives and views; can we shift into this new paradigm? The abundance of the internal love is the riches; this is the wealth. It is this constant war between our ego and spirit that is keeping the minds in a discontented state. Love is not green but red with passion. We grasp for money in the same way we do sex, so why not understand this balance. We lust over money the same as we do sex to pacify those painful, needy emotions that have lost all center and identity. To treat the ego of its insufficiencies is just the beginning and part of that journey is to treat it from its greediness of money that we so long have become accustomed to. Money is not a currency in which we can purchase self esteem. Ah, let us take a breath and see how the new world will be where money is not the focus and where love is the money sitting in your heart. Let us give our life a chance to experience the bliss, the change and the moment.
Part of being in the love energy is showing compassion for the people around you. When we have compassion, this is so much more rich then green dollars. When the money we earn in life does not come from a place of love then somewhere along the way you will lose it all. Money has a vibrancy all of its own and needs to come from that sacred place in order for its value to hold. I believe the reason we are in an economic falling is because of the greed that is living in our hearts out there. When we detach from this selfish place of “I” and “me” we will have just what it is that we need and more. It is challenging for humans to learn the new way. We all can become enlightened and teach others from that strength, but instead we go in and condemn our souls for showing up. And when the cup empties and the stream dries up who will you turn to? Will money be able to buy you out of your pain and suffering? Will money be there to give you that big hug you need after you’ve been scorned? I understand that money is important and yes I have the same need and want as you do, but I have learned to find a balance between the love of money and the love that I share with my soul. Money cannot step in that part of the equation.
There are many ways to show your love and compassion toward others. First start by telling your close family members that you love them. Think back as to when be the last time you verbally expressed those words to them. Love needs to be practiced or it will go bankrupt to just like the money is. So how can we save our planet from this evil force that has been revolving around for so many decades? We need to clean up the act and start giving. Give in life from your heart, give a smile, give a hand, and give a quarter or a meal. Giving can help build up the bank again; the karma bank.
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Your knowledge and insight is truly astonishing. You use the word Enlightenment with such confidence and humility. thank you for sharing your gift.
James
Success is not the result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire.
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